…is the famous advice offered all nascent writers.
But what if you don’t know very much at all?
You become a self-obsessed female writer, churning out the same words, just in a different order, once a week, that’s what.
There’s a few examples kicking around. My favourite is Kate Mulvey, who Desert Sun has written about a few times, pointing out the repetitive and yet inconsistent bollocks she throws out every few weeks (click the link while it still works – he recently told me he has a huge gender reassignment surgery bill was due, so won’t be renewing the web hosting contract).
We also have Jenna Hates, who writes Dear Diary style columns about annoyances most of us don’t have time to be bothered with.
We have a newcomer to the Gonzo-churn ™ genre; Mary Madigan (and a new category for this organ).
Mary’s output is starting to pick up speed now. The problem is, she’s got nothing to write about but herself. Let’s give this problem a name:
Kevin Rudd Disease; (genetic) – an inability to compose more than two sentences without using a first person singular pronoun. Prognosis: fatal tedium.
Today, Mary comments on Jennifer Aniston’s infertility by telling us we shouldn’t comment on Jennifer Aniston’s infertility (yes, I know). Except before she‘s travelled more than halfway though her column, she’s turned it around to be about Mary:
I’m not famous, and my hair isn’t nearly as lovely or iconic, but once you’re a woman over 25 and you have a partner, there’s no escaping the interest in your fertility. Suddenly, everyone in your family behaves like a tabloid journalist and you are treated like a celebrity, but unfortunately, still asked to wash up the dishes.
Forget being asked, how’s the weather? People go directly to: So, when will you have kids? Do you want kids? Have you had your fertility examined? Would you freeze your eggs? Do you make enough money to have a kid?
One can see how that line of questioning would grate. How annoying for Mary.
That’ll be the same Mary Madigan who authored this introspection about her future fertility and ability to financially support a family, right?
The moment I realised I wanted to become a mother was also the moment it occurred to me that I wasn’t in a financial position to afford a baby. In some abstract way, I’ve always figured I’d eventually have a baby. But it’s only been recently, as I hurl towards the end of my twenties, that I’ve felt that longing.
Bill’s Opinion
Jennifer Aniston tacitly signed the deal with the devil when she took the massive coin from show business; privacy was the price. She knew that. It’s been the deal since the silent movie era.
Mary Madigan wants us to stop talking about the thing she got paid to talk about 6 months ago.
Next month she’ll write a column about how we need a national conversation about it, or some such similar bollocks.
Apparently, she earns $65,000 a year for her brand of Gonzo-churn. That’s not a bad effort, but she’ll run out of combinations of the same words to use before she reaches retirement age, so will probably need to find someone else to write about.
If you’re reading this, Mary, Kate Mulvey recycled a few ex-lovers, changing the names around each time. Just a suggestion.
https://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-11412317/Childless-wives-reveal-theyre-judged-not-having-children.html Women have never had it so tough. At least we now know what the fly on the wall in the ladies’ loo has to listen to all day.
Historically, over a million years, trending close to zero fertile women didn’t conceive.
If you are female, fertile and regretful, whose problem is that?
Hint – not “society”
Going back to Daily Wail link above, it is not made explicit that trending close to one hundred per cent of those who judge the childless wives are women. By that I mean women TM because in the absence of children the appellation “birthing parent” becomes problematical.
https://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-11414615/CLAUDIA-CONNELL-Like-Jennifer-Aniston-did-mother.html. Why I wonder do they say that life’s a bitch?